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One Arrow, One Word, One Wife – The Epitome of Shri Rama
The festival of Shri Rama Navami marks the birth of Lord Rama, an embodiment of dharma, righteousness, and unwavering commitment. His life, narrated in the epic Ramayana, continues to inspire countless generations. But what makes Shri Rama’s character extraordinary? His life can be summed up in one simple yet profound phrase:
One arrow, one word, one wife – That is Shri Rama.
From childhood, Shri Rama displayed extraordinary strength. When Sage Vishwamitra needed protection for his sacred rituals, he did not seek an army—he sought Rama alone. Rama’s arrows proved formidable, vanquishing powerful demons like Tataka and Subahu.
In the court of King Janaka, when mighty warriors struggled to move the divine Shiva Dhanush, Rama effortlessly lifted and strung it, breaking the bow in the process and securing Sita’s hand in marriage.
When Sugriva doubted Rama’s ability to defeat the powerful Vali, he requested a demonstration. Rama responded with an awe-inspiring feat:
"The powerful golden arrow released by Rama pierced through seven Saala trees, split a mountain peak, and entered the earth." (Valmiki Ramayana, Kishkindha Kanda, 12-3)
Later, during the battle against Ravana, Rama’s arrows dismantled the demon king’s chariot and weapons. With a single Brahmastra, he struck Ravana’s heart, ending the war decisively. No wonder Ramabanam (Rama’s arrow) is synonymous with an unstoppable force.
Rama was known for his unwavering commitment to his word. When Kaikeyi demanded that he relinquish the throne and go into exile, he complied without hesitation.
His promise to Vibhishana was equally resolute:
"O Vibhishana! Without slaying Ravana, along with his kin and army, I shall not enter Ayodhya. I swear this upon my three younger brothers." (Valmiki Ramayana, Yuddha Kanda, 19-22)
True to his word, he upheld justice, duty, and truthfulness at all costs, inspiring generations to uphold integrity in their own lives.
Shri Rama is the foremost example of Ekapatnivratam—a man devoted to only one wife. Unlike many rulers of his time who had multiple wives, Rama saw all other women as mothers and remained devoted to Sita alone.
After Sita’s abduction, Rama’s sorrow was immeasurable. Hanuman, upon finding Sita in Lanka, described Rama’s longing:
"O Mother Sita! Rama constantly thinks of you. He does not sleep or eat. Even in sleep, he utters your name and wakes up." (Valmiki Ramayana, Sundara Kanda, 36-43, 44, 45)
This depth of love and devotion makes Shri Rama the ultimate ideal of a devoted husband.
Instead of merely worshiping Rama’s image, let us strive to embody his values in our daily lives. Instead of repeatedly celebrating Sita Kalyanam, let us work towards organizing marriages for underprivileged women.
A fascinating example comes from Russia, where a theater group performed Ramayana for several years due to public demand. The actor who played Rama, deeply influenced by the role, abandoned alcohol and meat, adopting an ascetic lifestyle. When asked why he remained unmarried, he replied:
"I have not yet found a woman like Sita."
Shri Rama’s legacy continues to shape lives even beyond cultural and geographical boundaries.
This Rama Navami, let’s pledge to follow his principles—upholding righteousness, truthfulness, and unwavering devotion in our lives.